Search & Reunion E-Magazine, August 2010

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Creating Your Own Support Group

Support groups are great resources for all sides of the adoption triad. They offer support, friendship, understanding, and acceptance. They offer assistance, help, and guidance. But sometimes finding a close-by or relevant support group can be difficult. And sometimes the number of support groups from which to choose is dismal. When this is the case, it may be time to create your own support group.

This is a big commitment. You have to be committed to not only getting the help you need, but helping others as well. You will need to help others along the paths of healing, acceptance, and progression--just as you are proceeding down the path. Creating your own support group takes work, dedication, planning, consistency, and commitment. But the benefits you'll receive will stay with your for the entirety of your life. You will be able to witness other members of your support group growing, progressing, and healing. What's better than that?

If creating a support group is something that sounds interesting or exciting for you, here are some things for you to consider before you begin:

Meeting Place: The first order of business is where you meet. It doesn't necessarily have to be a physical location; creating an online support group is also a viable option. Pick a place that is in a safe neighborhood, easy to find, and spacious enough for all your members. If you don't have a budget to pay for a monthly fee for using a building, have it in someone's house. It can give your meetings a more homey/comfortable feel--encouraging others to open up and share their story and advice for others.

Meeting Time: Pick a time that is both convenient for you and your support group members. Any time will work as long as everyone can agree on it. Choose a time or a specific day, and be consistent.

Group Goal: What will be your support group's goal? Towards what are you all working? If choosing one large goal towards which to work is overwhelming, start with smaller, more achievable goals--having everyone in the group share his or her story, for instance. Choosing a group goal can encourage unity within your group. And unity can inspire trust. And trust is essential to any successful support group.

Advertise: Get the word out there about your new support group. You can put up flyers or business cards at local grocery stores or church bulletin boards. You can put the information on your blog or on Facebook. Do what you can to get the members you need. There are many people out there--just like you--who need support throughout their emotional healing and recovery.

Meeting Topics: You can arrange for a guest speaker to join you for a few weeks. Or you can assign each week to a different support group member to run. Make sure to keep all members involved and active. Let them know they're needed.

Make the commitment to start your own support group and help others along the path to emotional healing and hope for the future. You no longer have to rely on other people to find the right support group. If you can't find one that fits you perfectly, create your own. And embrace it! Reunion Registry

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Sep 6, 1965 (M) - atlanta GA [ more ]
Feb 28, 1974 (F)- Johnstown PA [ more ]
Dec 9, 1973 (F) - Greenfield MA [ more ]
Dec 9, 1969 (F) - Naturalization on april 29th 1976 petition no. 19589 [ more ]

Birth Mothers

Apr 22, 1977 (F) - Good Sameritan hospital Phoenix AZ [ more ]
Nov 30, 1991 (F) - Sandy [ more ]
Jan 31, 1991 (M) - I was told that he would be adopted to a Dr and his wife was also in the medical field or a doc also [ more ]
May 23, 1989 (M) - IL [ more ]

Birth Fathers

Jun 22, 1964 (M) - CA [ more ]
Feb 29, 1968 (M) - MOTHER'S NAME WAS PAMELA KORKATTI. [ more ]


Jun 20, 1976 (F) - Reading hospital reading PA [ more ]
Dec 10, 1985 (F) - Bradenton FL [ more ]
Nov 30, 1973 (F) - Greenville hospital Greenville PA [ more ]
Oct 13, 1957 (M) - Birth mothers parents were Alfonso Blea and Annie Mascarenas. The birth father didn't know about the pregnancy his name is Robert... [ more ]

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In Your Words

Robyn writes, "How do I begin? I want to be available for my son to find me if he wants to. Which sites do you recommend I sign up on? " If you have feedback for Robyn, feel free to use the contact form below and we'll forward them to her.

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