1.   ANNOUNCEMENT:
     - China closed to foreign adoptions
     - "Relationship Stages After Reunion"
     - Looking for Adrian Gilbert
     - Looking for adoption financing company
     - Would you like to share your story on national television?
     - Search 200,000+ pages of adoption content
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2.   NEW ARTICLES
3.   ADOPTION NEWS
4.   ADOPTION BOOK CLUB - adoption book review
5.   CHILDREN'S BUREAU EXPRESS - helping hurting children
6.   MEET NEW HOPEFUL ADOPTIVE PARENTS
7.   FEATURED WAITING CHILD
8.   ADOPTION BUZZ - recent message board discussions
9.   ADOPTION GEM - inspirational thought
10.  ADOPTION SITE SPOTLIGHT
11.  ADOPTION DESTINATIONS - international adoption
12.  JUST FOR THE FUN OF IT - clean weekly humor
13.  FEATURED ADOPTION PROFESSIONAL
14.  ADOPTIONSHOP.COM PICK - review of an adoption product
15.  SOUND COUNSEL - question and answer/advice column 
16.  SPEAK OUT - contributions from our readers
17.  ADOPTION ONLINE GROUP REVIEW
18.  ADOPTION POETRY
19.  ADOPTION CALENDAR - adoption events, seminars, & chats

2. NEW ARTICLES

The views expressed by the authors are solely their own, and for which the authors are responsible. These views do not necessarily represent the views of Adoption Week e-Magazine.

Normative Crisis in the Development of the ADOPTIVE Family: A model for Professionals Working with Adoptive Families - new article by Dr. Joyce Maguire Pavao
It is estimated that adoption affects the lives of forty million Americans. This is startling, considering that there are approximately five million adoptees in this country. However, there are birthparents, adoptive parents, birth and adopted siblings, grandparents and a whole array of extended family members who are impacted by adoption. Given these numbers and the fact that adoption is becoming more prevalent in the 1990’s, it will be increasingly important for clinicians to be skilled in working with the unique issues that face adoptive family systems. http://e-magazine.adoption.com/article.php?articleid=269

Birth Mothers . . . Remember Where This Starts! - new article by Mardie Caldwell, COAP
Sadly, it is sometimes necessary to point out and remind adoptive parents, or parents waiting that moment, that these children find their adoptive parents after a long and often difficult journey suffered by their birth mothers. We must never forget this very important individual who, by strength of character, or difficulty in circumstances, or both, opted to give the gift of a child to those who could not have one. For this reason alone they deserve respect, recognition, consideration, thoughtfulness and kindness, from those who benefit from their decision. http://e-magazine.adoption.com/article.php?articleid=270

The Arms That Held Me - new article by Leslie Stewart Schafer
One Dr. thought I had cystic fibrosis and was certain I would never make it. I was frail and had lost weight, I screamed relentlessly and inconsolably and kept my mother pacing the floors night after night. In todays world, I would be termed a "failure to thrive" baby but by the standards of 1959, they didn't know any better. To think that all my life I had an indescribable pain inside me, a bitter emptiness that I could find no words for, is horrible and yet it is an amazing relief to finally put words and reason to it. http://e-magazine.adoption.com/article.php?articleid=271

Read these articles or contribute an article at http://e-magazine.adoption.com.

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3. ADOPTION NEWS

Getting Started with Adoption (MA)
http://www.adoption.com/includes/frame.php?url=http://www.msnbc.com/news/913544.asp?cp1=1#BODY

Guatemalan Girl Finds Home with Rep (MA)
http://www.townonline.com/bedford/news/local_regional/bed_newbmmurphy05142003.htm

Dover, Delaware, Teen Who Found Infant Called Hero (DE)
http://www.adoption.com/includes/frame.php?url=http://www.newszap.com/display/inn_dover/news402.txt

Officials Urge Residents To Become Foster Parents (CA)
http://www.adoption.com/includes/frame.php?url=http://www.nbc4.tv/family/2200643/detail.html

If any of the links to the news articles do not work, visit http://www.adoption.com/news for a list of headlines.

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4. ADOPTION BOOK CLUB

BROKEN SPIRITS LOST SOULS
Broken Spirits—Lost Souls provides you with a rare, valuable look at a silent yet potentially deadly problem plaguing our families today. Children born into crisis or ambivalence—currently a state more usual than not—are vulnerable to attachment disturbances because the roots of this horrendous disorder occur when basic life enhancing needs of newborns and infants go unnoticed or unmet. Consequently, children who are victims of early neglect or trauma are at grave risk. Candid stories told by parents of disturbed youngsters will enlighten, and possibly frighten you, while painting a clear picture of the chilling, dangerous behaviors already demonstrated by out-of-control three-year-olds, who by their teens, predictably defy authority and challenge every accepted familial and societal norm.

For more information on this book, visit http://adoptionshop.com/cgi-bin/products/ADP00055.html.

Find 7,000+ other adoption products at AdoptionShop.com.

To share your favorite adoption book with others, join the Adoption Book Club on AdoptionLists.com at http://adoptionlists. com/index.php?action=lists&listname=adoptionbookclub.

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5. CHILDREN'S BUREAU EXPRESS

Special Section: May is National Foster Care Month

Resources for National Foster Care Month
http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/articles.cfm?article_id=638

Bipartisan Commission Launched to Address Foster Care Outcomes
http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/articles.cfm?article_id=650

Youth Aging Out of Foster Care Face Uphill Climb to Adulthood
http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/articles.cfm?article_id=639

Experts Convene to Promote Permanence for Older Children, Adolescents
http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/articles.cfm?article_id=640

Review Finds Little Evidence to Support Institutional Care
http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/articles.cfm?article_id=641

Research

Unclear Whether ASFA Speeds Adoption, Slows Reunification
http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/articles.cfm?article_id=642

Brief Outlines Proper Uses (and Misuses) of Social Indicators
http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/articles.cfm?article_id=643

Promising Practices

Family Visitation Program Receives National Recognition
http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/articles.cfm?article_id=645

Alternatives for Accessing Mental Health Services for Children
http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/articles.cfm?article_id=644

News You Can Use

Publications
http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/articles.cfm?article_id=646

Funding
http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/articles.cfm?article_id=647

Training
http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/articles.cfm?article_id648

Conferences
http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/articles.cfm?article_id=637>

Spotlight on the National Resource Centers

New State Fact Sheet Series: National Resource Center for Youth Development
http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/articles.cfm?article_id=649

Credit: Children's Bureau Express
Link: http://www.calib.com/cbexpress/

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6. MEET NEW HOPEFUL ADOPTIVE PARENTS

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Adoption is music to our ears...now it can be for you, too.




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7. FEATURED WAITING CHILD

Elisha is a very active and energetic toddler who has a pleasant personality. He is usually shy around strangers and will keep his distance until he gets to know them. When Elisha gets to know you, he is very engaging and outgoing. Elisha is not developmentally on target for his age; he was diagnosed with having Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. Elisha is somewhat small in stature for his age; however, he seems to function on target, showing no signs of delay, etc. Elisha would do well in a home which he can receive a lot of one-on-one attention in a loving and nurturing setting.

http://photolisting.adoption.com is a free community service of Adoption.com featuring more than 1,800 children awaiting loving, permanent homes.

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8. ADOPTION BUZZ

General Adoptive Parent Support: - How Do I Prepare My ADaughter for This?
http://www.adoptionforums.com/t103700.html

Birth Parents Discuss What They Wish Their Child's Adoptive Parents Would Say To Them:- On Being A Birthmom
http://www.adoptionforums.com/t100526.html

Adoptees' Stories: - Reunion Issues
http://www.adoptionforums.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=233334#post233334

General Adoptive Parent Support: - Waiting for Another Match After A Fall Through
http://www.adoptionforums.com/t103763.html

If any of the links above do not work, visit Adoption.com for direct links to these discussions.

For more online adoption discussions, visit http://www.AdoptionForums.com.

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9. ADOPTION GEM

10. ADOPTION SITE SPOTLIGHT

This week, our adoption spotlight is shining on: FosterParenting.com

If you are considering being a foster parent, this site contains over 1,000 pages of content with information to prepare you for your journey. Various forms of content, from poetry to online books, etc are made available for your convenience.

For a list of our favorite adoption websites, visit http://adoptions.adoption.com.

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11. ADOPTION DESTINATIONS

InternationalAdoption.org is the internet's authoritative destination for international adoption. You will find fact sheets, adoption information, travel information, culture and heritage, maps, weather, books, currency exchange rates, periodicals, news and much more for dozens of different countries with active international adoption programs.

This week, the country of focus is Belize.

Belize is located in Middle America, bordering the Caribbean Sea, between Guatemala and Mexico. The ethnic groups in Belize are mestizo 43.7%, Creole 29.8%, Maya 10%, Garifuna 6.2%, other 10.3%, and the languages spoken are English (official), Spanish, Mayan, Garifuna (Carib), Creole.

To learn more about the Belize's government, geography, and communication information, or its history, visit http://Belize.adoption.com/.

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12. JUST FOR THE FUN OF IT

A LITTLE ICE CREAM

Thank God for children saying grace... Last week, I took my children to a restaurant. My six-year-old son asked if he could say grace.

As we bowed our heads, he said, "God is good. God is great. Thank you for this food, and I would even thank you more if Mom gets us ice cream for dessert. And liberty and justice for all! Amen!"

Along with the laughter from the other customers nearby, I heard a woman remark, "That's what's wrong with this country. Kids today don't even know how to pray. Asking God for ice-cream! Why, I never!"

Hearing this, my son burst into tears and asked me, "Did I do it wrong? Is God mad at me?"

As I held him and assured him that he had done a terrific job and God was certainly not mad at him, an elderly gentleman approached the table. He winked at my son and said, "I happen to know that God thought that was a great prayer."

"Really?" my son asked.

"Cross my heart," the man replied... Then in a theatrical whisper, he added, (indicating to the woman whose remark had started this whole thing)," Too bad she never asks God for ice cream. A little ice cream is good for the soul sometimes."

Naturally, I bought my kids ice cream at the end of the meal. My son stared at his for a moment and then did something I will remember the rest of my life. He picked up his sundae and without a word, walked over and placed it in front of the woman.

With a big smile he told her, "Here, this is for you. Ice cream is good for the soul sometimes, and my soul is good already."

I love this story! Keep it moving. Sometimes we all need some ice cream.

E-mail your humorous story or joke to editor@adoptionmedia.com.

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13. FEATURED ADOPTION PROFESSIONAL

Open Arms Adoption & Family Center
Liverpool, NY
Toll Free (800) 265-2237
Phone: (315) 622-3640
openarms@compuserve.com

Open Arms provides a safe, warm, supportive environment where you can get the information you need to make the choices and decisions that are right for you. We encourage a true open adoption relationship for all members of the adoption triad. We are NYS authorized, not for profit.

Services: • Adoption Agencies • Home Studies

For more information on Open Arms Adoption & Family Center, visit http://www.openarmsadoption.org/.

Find adoption agencies, attorneys and other adoption professionals at http://directory.adoption.com.

To see your ad here, visit http://adoptiondirectory.com/upgrade.php.

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14. ADOPTIONSHOP.COM PICK

International Adoption Travel Journal - Only $23.95

New Edition! The International Adoption Travel Journal was designed with your special trip in mind. International adoption travel is a time of excitement, wonder, and unpredictable experiences. In addition to adding a new child to your family, your trip is probably the first you will make to your child's birth country. You want to savor it all. But, as many parents who have been there know, in all the excitement and stress of international adoption travel, chronicling your trip in blank a notebook becomes next to impossible - particularly once your child arrives. With seven separate sections organized in meaningful categories and a full-in-the blank format, you will find this unique journal an invaluable keepsake to record your trip of a lifetime.


For more information and ordering instructions, visit http://http://adoptionshop.com/cgi-bin/products/ADP00924.html.

For more adoption products, visit http://adoptionshop.com.

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15. SOUND COUNSEL

Question:

Hello:

I am an adoptee born in NJ, and I recently submitted a request for non-identifying info to the agency that handled my adoption. I had been told by the agency to put the request in writing, have it notarized, and include a fee of $60.00. I was also told that it would take about 4 weeks to get the info I requested.

Toward the end of the four weeks, I noticed that the check I had sent had been paid, so I became excited and expected my non-ID to arrive shortly thereafter. Nothing came. I called the agency and e-mailed them repeatedly and was ignored. Finally I got hold of the caseworker, and she, rather nonchalantly, told me that she not gotten around to my request yet and that she was busy with other things. She didn't seem at all aware of how much this info means to me and how hard it is for me to remain patient in this situation. I am very frustrated and don't know what to do about this.

Thanks,

P.B.

Answer:

P.B., I am sorry to hear you are having to put up with this type of situation. It is unfortunate when people forget that their job is very important and that people depend on them for important information.

That being said, my first suggestion would be to ask for a supervisor or someone in charge. You may want to try going to the adoption agency's website and see if you can find someone else (preferably higher up than the person you originally spoke to) to speak with.

Do not give up. Keep trying and do not take "no" for an answer. Non-identifying medical information is very important, and you have done your part and deserve to get it. Especially, if you have already paid for it.

The main thing is to keep plugging away at them, no matter how frustrated you become. Be polite, but you are fully within your right to use a stern tone of voice. Good luck to you.

DB

Question:

I recently was put in contact with my son whom I placed for adoption. His adopted father actually found me and then gave his son all the information to make the decision whether to contact me or not. We have only talked on the phone, as we live far apart. However, everything was going well. We both seemed to be enjoying the contact. He sent me pictures of himself and his wife. He's 22. I, in return, made a book for him depicting my family history with pictures. He liked the book very much until he took it home for Christmas for his family to see. Then I got a nasty e-mail and things went down hill quickly. Every once in awhile I get a short Hi from him which leaves me to believe that he still wants contact, but he won't communicate, and I don't think we can solve anything unless he communicates. I really don't know what to do or how to approach him anymore. It's really like walking on eggshells! Is this normal, and how do I approach him or just let him lead the way? I would really like an answer. Thank you for your time.

Answer:

First and foremost, congratulations on at least making contact with your son. It is amazing that his adopted father is the one that found you and provided the information to your son.

I don't think there is a "normal" circumstance when it comes to reuniting with biological parents/children for any of the parties involved (i.e., the adopted child/adult, biological parent, adoptive parents, etc.). My feelings on situations like this one are always the same, however. I think it is best for the party that seems apprehensive to be left to lead the way, so to speak. It is never good to push someone into something that they are not ready for.

I am not sure what his "nasty" e-mail said, so I cannot comment on it's content. It is my thought that if he did not want contact with you, he wouldn't send you even a "hi" message. So you may be correct in your feeling that he still wants contact. You must, however, allow him to proceed at his own pace. He may have given it some more thought and realized that he is not ready yet for this type of contact. Also, he may not have the comfort level with you yet to talk about his feelings (with regard to this situation). Comfort takes time to earn, like trust, and he just may not be there yet with you and your relationship.

As with anything that is tough in life, give it time and it will work itself out. It always does, without fail. Don't rush him, and be thankful that you have even had the opportunity to communicate with him. Many people don't even get that. Thanks for your question, and the best of luck to you.

DB

To submit your questions, e-mail adoptionquestions2003@yahoo.com

In order for your questions/comments to be answered in the next week's issue, questions need to be submitted before 12 noon each Thursday.

In addition, please remember to keep your questions appropriate for Adoption Week e-Magazine; otherwise, they will not be answered or included in the next week's edition.

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16. SPEAK OUT

I have two sons that were placed at birth. They are with the same parents. One was born March 10, 1978, and the second was born February 13, 1981 in California. My eldest son was named Michael Glen at birth and his brother was named Stephen Lee. They were both born at Mad River Hospital in Arcata, California and adopted through Children's Home Society. My heart is to meet and know them, but I also know that it has to be up to them to want the same. I made a choice that has affected their lives and I have prayed for years that it was a right choice. Now the choice has to be left to them. I am here. They have a sister and brother who want to know them, too. I can be reached at kcf124@yahoo.com.

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I am a female, born June 30, 1967 in Waukegan, Illinois. I had an article published recently in the Waukegan News Sun - a full page spread. I was only a couple hours old and left abandoned in a parked vehicle at St. Theresse Hospital - Waukegan, IL. I was found by a ward clerk who was visiting a patient. At that time they published and article in the Monday July 3, 1967 edition, asking "who's baby girl am I". We published the new article last month and have had limited responses. How can I get the information out there? Being abandoned, there are no paper trails, or names to go on. The Chicago Tribune and Sun times are considering running the article for hopes of a wider reading area. Are there any abandoned babies regestries? Every day I stare into the faces of those I come in contact with - looking for clues, or something that links me to someone. For thirty five years, I have been seeking to fill in the missing pieces of my identity. Who am I? What nationality? Who do I look like? Do I have siblings? Does my birth father know that I even exist? I am blessed that my birth mother left me where she knew that I would be found, especially since I was a preemie: 4lbs, 6oz. Sometimes, I wonder if I will ever have the answers.

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My name is Dawn Croft, and I gave my daughter up for adoption 18 years ago. I am not trying to interfere with her life; I just want her to know why I gave her up. She was born January 8, 1995 at Lutheran Hospital in Fort Wayne, Indiana. I named her Joanna Marie Croft at birth. If anyone has any information regarding my daughter's whereabouts, please e-mail me at Tigerdawnc69@Yahoo.com or call me at (260) 636-3928.
Thank you, Dawn Croft
P.S. The agency that handled the adoption proceedings was the Catholic Social Services of Fort Wayne. So, if you are a couple who may have adopted a baby through this service, please contact me.

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I am looking for my birth parents who, upon information and belief, are currently married and living in the Hackensack area, New Jersey. I was born on 04/25/58 in a hospital in Jersey City and was placed for adoption by the Childrens' Home Society of Trenton in September 1958. At birth, my name may have been Mary, possibly Mary Arnold on my birth certificate. I was born with a damaged foot which was casted for several months after my birth. My birth mother's name was Patrica, and I believe her maiden name may have been Arnold. She had 5 siblings, and her parents were divorced. She was petite with brown hair and green eyes, Irish/English. She was born in approximately 1941. The family was Catholic. My birth father's name is Tom or Thomas. He is Italian and was born in approximately 1935. He has a college education and is approximately 6 feet and thin. He has possibly 2 sisters and a brother. A sister or brother may have died before my birth, one possibly in world war II. His parents were older and native Italians. It is my understanding that my birth parents married in approximately 1971 and have no other children. If these individuals sound familiar to any one, please e-mail me at mstump2@woh.rr.com.

To Speak Out and share your opinion or a comment, or to respond to a message, e-mail editor@adoptionmedia.com.

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17. ADOPTION ONLINE SUPPORT GROUP REVIEW

Here's a recent post from the Birth Parents group:

Lauren,

Honey, you are so allowed to miss your son as much as you do. I want you to know that you are not alone in your grief. We have all experienced or are experiencing it. Even though it's four and half years later, I still miss my daughter. But I know she is where she needs to be.

I really wish I could be there to give you a big hug and just let you be sad. I remember being in the stage of birthmotherhood that you are in; it's something I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. I remember one minute being fine and the next just crying my eyes out. My arms felt so empty and every single thought was on my daughter.

Lauren, just let yourself grieve; let your grief bring you wisdom, and I hope someday acceptance of the decision you made for your son. Please feel free to share your feelings with us anytime, as I know you are having a hard time. Please know I am thinking of you.

((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))
Allison
Birth Parent List Moderator
http://lists.adoption.com

To be part of this group, or one of 70+ other adoption-related online e- mail discussion groups, visit http://AdoptionLists.com, register, and join.

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18. ADOPTION POETRY

THE GIFT

A soft murmuring mouth
that nuzzled gently into
Sleepless nights
could gurgle contentment
or cry out in distress
And inexperience would
laugh or cry in wonder
at having to keep
safe and warm
her baby newly born.

The gift of life came with tiny fingers
and a heart so full of trust
And soon, the feisty toddler to "No!"
would stamp and shout
And scream a little heart out in
frustration and disgust.

From their new found world of
Words and feelings,
A little person begins
to emerge,
Who embraces life and love
In innocence
Well deserved.

Needs and wishes change and grow
Which a mother's love does nurture,
but in such profound loving
begins to have to let go.
While looking in the mirror,
She sees time's passage
defining her changing face
And wonders as many others do
"Did I really have a clue?"

Adolescence arrives with
bras and boys
And Pop star posters,
replacing toys.
The hugs have changed
With the look in her eyes
And I know, before long,
The schoolbag, the jokes
And the songs,
Will shadow the emptiness
Of her goodbyes,
When she leaves,
as a young woman
to a life of her own,
And one day perhaps
will whisper to a child of hers,
of a gift murmured softly,
Between Mothers alone.

- Renée Ballerini, Depression Forum Moderator c2003
Adoptee and mother of three girls.

For more adoption poetry, visit http://poetry.adoption.com.

Submit your adoption poetry to editor@adoptionmedia.com.

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19. ADOPTION CALENDAR

CHAT SCHEDULE:

Sunday:
Reunion Support Group Chat with Loretta in the Search and Reunion room at 6pm Pacific, 7pm Mountain, 8pm Central, 9pm Eastern

Monday:
Join Dr. Art Becker-Weidman in the hosted chat room at 2pm Pacific, 3pm Mountain, 4pm Central, 5pm Eastern and ask him questions on attachment therapy and treating children with trauma-attachment disorders.

Adoptee Chat with Thea in the hosted chat room at 6pm Pacific, 7pm Mountain, 8pm Central, 9pm Eastern. Thea is a caring adoptee that has recently reunited with her birthmother.

Tuesday:
Birth mom chat with Angelwings. Angel is a birthmom and adoptee. Her chat is held in the BirthMother.chat room at 4pm Pacific, 5pm Mountain, 6pm Central, 7pm Eastern

Birth father's General Support Chat in the hosted chat room with adoptee and birthfather, Terry. All are invited at 6pm Pacific, 7pm Mountain, 8pm central, 9pm Eastern

Attachment Disorder: A Journey of Hope Chat with Parent Nancy Geoghegan; educational weekly chat at 7pm Pacific, 8pm Mountain, 9pm Central, 10pm Eastern

Wednesday:
Pre- and adoptive parent chat with JJ and friends - Help as you begin the adoption process. Hosted in Adoptive Parents chat room at 5pm Pacific, 6pm Mountain, 7pm Central, 8pm Eastern.

Parenting issues for adoptive/foster parents with Dimasmom in FosterCare chat room at 6pm Pacific, 7pm Mountain, 8pm Central, 9pm Eastern.

Join an informative chat on the ups and downs of reunion hosted by Sabra since 1997. Talk out your next step and share your experiences in search and reunion at 7pm Pacific, 8pm Mountain, 9pm Central, 10pm Eastern in the Search and Reunion chat room.

Thursday:
Evening with Colleen Buckner, search expert, in Search and Reunion chat room at 6pm Pacific, 7pm Mountain, 8pm Central, 9pm Eastern.

Friday:
If you are having a "limbo" type experience with your reunion, come and talk it over with those who've "been there-done that" themselves. Join co-hosting birth mothers, April and Judy, in the Search and Reunion room on Fridays: 5pm Pacific, 6pm Mountain, 7pm Central, 8pm Eastern.

Saturday:
Older child adoption/foster care behavioral issues with Jerry in FosterCare chat room at 6pm Pacific, 7pm Mountain, 8pm Central, 9pm Eastern.

For a listing of times and descriptions and to attend scheduled chats, or join the live chat, visit http://forums.adoption.com/chat.

ADOPTION EVENTS:

FREE TRAINING FOR PROSPECTIVE ADOPTIVE AND FOSTER PARENTS OR KINSHIP CAREGIVERS
Series: May 13 - May 31 (Times vary per day; please call for specific times. Each segment is 3 hours long.)
1667 East 40th St. Suite B-1, Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Program: Pre-placement training for prospective adoptive/foster/kinship caregivers through the Ohio Child Welfare Training Program. Topics include: Orientation and overview of foster care/adoption/kinship care;family systems and abuse and neglect; attachment, sexual abuse. Attendees: Prospective adoptive parents, foster parents, or kinship caregivers. RSVP: There is no cost for attending, but registration is required at least 3 days in advance on a space available basis. Please call (216) 881-7511 to register. Foster parent training credits will be given.

CLEVELAND HEIGHTS GENERAL MEETING
May 22 (7:30 - 9:30 pm)
Fairmount Presbyterian Church, 2757 Fairmount Blvd., Fullerton Room, Cleveland Hts., Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Attendees: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend.

CLEVELAND HEIGHTS GENERAL MEETING
May 22 (7:30 - 9:30 pm)
Fairmount Presbyterian Church, 2757 Fairmount Blvd., Fullerton Room, Cleveland Hts., Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Attendees: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend.

WORKSHOP FOR PROSPECTIVE ADOPTIVE PARENTS CONSIDERING CHINA ADOPTION
May 24 (1:00 - 3:00 pm)
Allegan Public Library, 331 Hubbard St, Allegan, MI
Great Wall China Adoption
Free workshop for prospective adoptive parents and others seeking more information about adopting from China. Couples from ages 30 to 55 are eligible to adopt. A Great Wall China Adoption representative who has just completed her adoption will be presenting. For further information or to reserve a place at the workshop, please contact Kim Bakos at (269) 429-6292 or by e-mail at kimberbakos@yahoo.com.

WICKLIFFE GENERAL MEETING - Topic: Loss
May 27 (7:30 - 9:30 pm)
Schrembs Hall, CSS, 28700 Euclid Ave., Wickliffe, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Attendees: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend.

INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION SUPPORT MEETING - Topic: School Issues & Advocacy
May 28 (7:00 - 8:30 pm)
Euclid Public Library, Erie Room, 631 E. 222nd. St., Euclid, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Attendees: Adoptive parents or prospective adoptive parents of internationally adopted children. No registration or membership is required to attend.

INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION SESSION
May 29 (7:00 pm - 9:00 pm)
First Baptist Church of Jonesboro
Genesis Adoptions
Thousands of children around the world dream of finding loving and permanent homes. Learn the process of international adoption. Free, but please call to pre-register (678) 432-9118. This session will also be held on June 26th, July 31st, Aug. 28th and Sept. 25th.

MASS OF HOPE FOR COUPLES AND INDIVIDUALS WHO ARE WAITING
June 1 (12:45 pm)
Old St. Patrick's Church, 700 West Adams, Chicago (downtown), Illinois
The Fertility Support Group
After Mass, there will be a presentation on how our faith can get us through the difficult times of adoption and infertility. To RSVP, or for more information, contact Wina at (773) 581-7724.

A JOURNEY OF A THOUSAND MILES BEGINS WITH ONE STEP
June 4 (6:30 pm - 8:00 pm)
Brighton Public Library (Brighton, MI)
AAC Adoption and Family Network
Free informational meeting; an evening of information for anyone interested in adopting from China. Please call Kim at (810) 844-0278 or e-mail mamakgreen@yahoo.com to register today!

BIRTH PARENT SUPPORT MEETING
June 4 (6:30 - 8:30 pm)
Adoption Network Cleveland, 1667 East 40th St. Suite B-1, Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Birthparents who have given up a child for adoption. For more information, contact Adoption Network Cleveland at (216) 881-7511, or on the web at http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

ROCKY RIVER GENERAL MEETING
June 5 (7:30 - 9:30 pm)
West Shore Unitarian Church, 20401 Hilliard Blvd., Rocky River, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend. For more information, contact Adoption Network Cleveland at (216) 881-7511, or on the web at http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

ADOPTION 101: WHERE DO I BEGIN?
June 7 (12:00 ­ 4:30 pm)
Adoption Network Cleveland, 1667 East 40th St. Suite B-1, Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Program: A workshop for people who are looking into adoption for the first time.
Who can attend: Open to the public.
RSVP: Registration is $35/person or $45/couple before 06-04-03. Registration after 06-04-03, or at the door, is $40/person or $50/couple. Seating is limited, so please call (216) 881-7511 to register early.

OPENNESS IN ADOPTION
June 10 (7:00 - 8:30 pm)
Heights Parent Center, 1700 Crest Road, Cleveland Heights, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Speaker: Maureen Heffernan
Who can attend: Fee for non-members. Child care available. Please call to register at (216) 321-0079.

HOW TO ADOPT WORKSHOP FOR NY & NJ RESIDENTS
June 11, July 9, August 13 (6:00 - 8:00 pm)
130 East 59 Street (UJA-Federation), Manhattan
$25 per person
Ametz Adoption Program, JCCA
A good place to start if you are just thinking about adoption. Includes domestic and international adoption options, working with attorneys and agencies, costs, time frames, adoption home studies and first steps. Presentations by Ametz and international adoption agency staff. Questions are encouraged. For more information or to register, please contact Susan Kupferberg at (212) 558-9949 or e-mail ametz@jccany.org.

AKRON GENERAL MEETING ­ Topic: Control
June 11 (7:30 - 9:30 pm)
Akron General Health and Wellness Center, 4125 Medina Road, Akron, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend. For more information, contact Adoption Network Cleveland at (216) 881-7511, or on the web at http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

DOWNTOWN CLEVELAND GENERAL MEETING ­ NEW
June 13 (11:00 am ­ 1:00 pm) - Bring lunch if you wish
Adoption Network Cleveland, 1667 East 40th St. Suite B-1, Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend. For more information, contact Adoption Network Cleveland at (216) 881-7511, or on the web at http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

LISTENING & COMMUNICATION SKILLS FOR FAMILIES
June 18 (6:00 ­ 9:00 pm) - Bring lunch if you wish
Berea Children¹s Home, Center City Office, 2121 East 32nd St., Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Presenter: Kim Langley
RSVP: Free workshop. Foster parent training certificates and social work/counselor CEU's provided. Registration is required, please call (216) 881-7511. Registration closes 3 day prior to workshop.

PARENTING WITH EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
June 21 (9:00 am ­ 4:00 pm) - Bring lunch if you wish
Berea Children¹s Home, Center City Office, 2121 East 32nd St., Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Presenter: Kim Langley
RSVP: Free workshop. Foster parent training certificates and social work/counselor CEU's provided. Registration is required, please call (216) 881-7511. Registration closes 3 day prior to workshop.

NEW WAYS TO MANAGE DIFFICULT BEHAVIOR: PUTTING SOME FUN BACK IN PARENTING
June 23 (6:00 ­ 9:00 pm) - Bring lunch if you wish
Adoption Network Cleveland, 1667 East 40th St. Suite B-1, Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Presenter: Arleta James
RSVP: Free workshop. Foster parent training certificates and social work/counselor CEU's provided. Registration is required, please call (216) 881-7511. Registration closes 3 day prior to workshop.

MISUNDERSTOOD MINDS: Getting a Handle on Learning Differences (Disabilities)
June 24 (9:30 am ­ 12:30 pm) - Bring lunch if you wish
BeechBrook, 3737 Lander Rd., Pepper Pike, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Presenter: Kim Langley
RSVP: Free workshop. Foster parent training certificates and social work/counselor CEU's provided. Registration is required, please call (216) 881-7511. Registration closes 3 day prior to workshop.

LAKE COUNTY GENERAL MEETING ­ New Location
June 24 (7:30 ­ 9:00 pm)
Deepwood North Apartments, Rental Office/Community Room, 8100 Deepwood Blvd. (off Rt. 84) Mentor, Ohio. Follow signs to rental office.
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend. For more information, contact Adoption Network Cleveland at (216) 881-7511, or on the web at http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION SUPPORT MEETING
June 25 (7:00 ­ 8:30 pm)
Euclid Public Library, Erie Room, 631 E. 222nd. St., Euclid, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Adoptive parents or prospective adoptive parents of internationally adopted children. No registration or membership is required to attend. For more information, contact Adoption Network Cleveland at (216) 881-7511, or on the web at http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

WORKSHOP FOR PROSPECTIVE ADOPTIVE PARENTS CONSIDERING CHINA ADOPTION
June 28 (11:00 am - 1:00 pm)
Three Oaks Library, 3 North Elm St., Three Oaks, MI
Great Wall China Adoption
Free workshop for prospective adoptive parents and others seeking more information about adopting from China. Couples from ages 30 to 55 are eligible to adopt. A Great Wall China Adoption representative who has just completed her adoption will be presenting. For further information or to reserve a place at the workshop, please contact Kim Bakos at (269) 429-6292 or by e-mail at kimberbakos@yahoo.com.

18TH ANNUAL ARCHEOLOGY: Summer Intensives on Adoption and Complex Families
July 7 - 8 (Session I; 8:00 am - 4:00 pm)
July 9 (Session II; 8:00 am - 4:30 pm)
July 10 - 11 (Session III; 8:00 am - 3:00 pm and 8:00 am - 5:00 pm, respectively)
Provincetown, MA
Adoption Resource Center & Center For Family Connections
Session I: Advanced Clinical Intensives ; $400
Session II: The Community of Adoption; $200 for newcomers/$100 for repeat attendees
Session III: 2nd Annual International Adoption Video/Film Festival; $200 for both days/$150 for single day
Fee for Sessions I, II, and III = $725
Payment is non-refundable.
(Proceeds from the Video/Film Festival go to the Expressive Therapy Programs of CFFC)
The ARC Summer Intensives are based on Dr. Pavao's Normative Crisis framework, her years of clinical experience, and her consulting and training expertise. The workshops utilize family systems theory, which is the basis of Dr. Pavao's work. Systemic thinking is woven throughout the design of each workshop.
Register as soon as possible, there is limited space. Social Work and LMFT CEUs are available for an additional $35 per session. Limited scholarships are available (scholarships do not apply to the Video/Film Festival or CEUs). Check our website, http://www.Kinnect.org, for updates. Accommodation information and directions are available upon registration.

WORKSHOP FOR PROSPECTIVE ADOPTIVE PARENTS CONSIDERING CHINA ADOPTION
August 2 (1:00 - 3:00 pm)
Ypsilanti District Library, 5577 Whittaker Rd, Ypsilanti, MI
Great Wall China Adoption
Free workshop for prospective adoptive parents and others seeking more information about adopting from China. Couples from ages 30 to 55 are eligible to adopt. A Great Wall China Adoption representative who has just completed her adoption will be presenting. For further information or to reserve a place at the workshop, please contact Kim Bakos at (269) 429-6292 or by e-mail at kimberbakos@yahoo.com.

For local listings, regional seminars, and many other adoption events, visit AdoptionCalendar.com.

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