1. ANNOUNCEMENT

ADOPTION JOBS
For the fifth consecutive year, the National Center for Adoption Law & Policy will match law students from all over the U.S. who are interested in summer assignments concerning ALL AREAS of child welfare and permanence for children with private, public and non-profit entities who can use their help. If you are a judge, lawyer, part of a child protection agency, or work in an adoption or child advocacy organization, visit http://www.law.capital.edu/adoption/JobSite/open_jobs.htm to post your job opening.

HELP US WRITE AN E-BOOK ON ADOPTION
Do you have the expertise to write an e-book about adoption-related topics? Adoption.com is building a library of downloadable e-books that can be purchased from our adoption shop. We would prefer "how to" topics instead of personal stories. Possible topics include: adopting through the foster care system, adopting an infant quickly, adopting an older child, how to find a good agency, talking to your child about adoption, stepparent adoption, etc. If you are interested, contact editor@adoptionweek.com.

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GREAT WAYS TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE
Would you like to get involved and help great children's causes? We have developed a new page: http://about.adoption.com/make-a-difference.php to showcase great ways that we can all give back. If there is something you would like to see added to this list, please email editor@adoptionmedia.com.

ADOPTION NEWS AND ARTICLES UPDATED 5 DAYS A WEEK
The new Adoption.com home page has a "News & Articles" section that is updated with new headlines Monday through Friday. We encourage you to visit http://Adoption.com each day to find out the latest adoption news and articles.

ADOPTION.COM UNVEILS NEW HOME PAGE
The Adoption.com home page has been re-designed to help our visitors more easily find what they are looking for and improve the user experience. You will soon see this new look and feel on the sub-pages of the site. Visit http://www.Adoption.com, and let feedback@adoptionmedia.com know what you think of our new home page. We'd love to know what you think.

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2. NEW ARTICLES

The views expressed by the authors are solely their own, and for which the authors are responsible. These views do not necessarily represent the views of Adoption Week e-Magazine.

The Words We Use - new article contributed by Mary Anne Cohen
Adoption loss is not equivalent to the Holocaust or other global catastrophes. Separation is not the same as incineration. Our loss is real and grievous but it is the not the worst thing that can happen to a human being. Where there is life there is hope, and hope for reunion eventually is something to cherish. Reunion can change some things, and make them better, even if it cannot cure all our pain. Giving up a child for adoption is a tragic and difficult life experience, but it is one that can be lived with. For most of us it is not a disease or mental condition, but a sorrow to be honored and admitted and dealt with , with compassion and forgiveness for ourselves and others. Rather than isolating ourselves in our unique pain, we need to keep connecting with the larger world and with the human condition in general. We have already endured much, and can keep enduring more. In time, the pain may become less as wisdom and acceptance grows. We are stronger of heart than any syndrome or symptom, and we can move beyond the past to enjoy the present and future. http://e-magazine.adoption.com/article.php?articleid=410

They Wanted Me Anyway - new article contributed by "D", Atlanta, GA
I recently received non-identifying information from the state, and I regret knowing that I came into the world in an undignified place and circumstance. It hurts my heart to know what I now know. While my natural mother's situation may have been tragic as I don't have details of ourse, and I have forgiven the hurt she has caused, it was probably due to poor decision making on her part. http://e-magazine.adoption.com/article.php?articleid=411

Read these articles at http://Magazine.Adoption.com, and submit your adoption-related articles to editor@adoptionweek.com for publication in Adoption Week e-Magazine and Adoption.com.

By submitting content, you represent that you have the rights to this content and that you give Adoption.com and Adoption Week the right to reprint this content on the internet, via e-mail, and in print form.

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3. ADOPTION NEWS

In the news this week: Romania ignores adoption ban in order to fulfill agreement with Italy; Ballard family loses adoption case against birth father. To read these two articles and several other headlines, visit News.Adoption.com/.

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4. ADOPTION BOOK CLUB

CELEBRATE THE GIFT
Celebrate the Gift begins with the first thoughts of your child through the first year in their home and is then followed by four sections - The Beginning - The Waiting Game - The Travel Experience - and the First Year. Each section is filled with suitable questions to answer, areas for special pictures, quotations for inspiration, and warm drawings to encourage thought. It allows the adoptive parent(s) a unique guide to document their journey and celebrate their gift.The book is 6x9, which is convenient for travel. It is 90 pages, spiral bond, and has a pocket inside the front and back covers for keepsakes.

For more information on this book, visit http://adoptionshop.com/cgi-bin/products/ADP12161.html.


Find 1,200+ other adoption products at adoptionshop.com.

To share your favorite adoption book with others, join the Adoption Book Club on AdoptionLists.com at http://adoptionlists.com/index.php?action=lists&listname=adoptionbookclub.

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5. MEET NEW HOPEFUL ADOPTIVE PARENTS

Jeff & Mickie (OK)
We are an energetic and fun-loving couple who look forward to building our family through the gift of adoption. We will share the same unconditional love and support we have experienced and tell the story of your strength and courage to our child forever. To view Jeff and Mickie's profile, visit http://profiles.adoption.com/profiles/db9809.html.

Raymond & Kimberly (CA)
Hello! We're Raymond and Kimberly Brinson, a fun, active California Bay Area couple eager to start our family. We can't wait to take our baby for walks along the many trails in our neighborhood, or watch our child try out a tricycle for the first time. To view Raymond and Kimberly's profile, visit http://profiles.adoption.com/profiles/db6790.html.

Brian & Vicki (VA)
You are making the loving decision to give your child the best possible life. We are a family that hopes to provide love, security and opportunity to a child such as yours. A ready-made family with adoring parents and two big brothers awaits your child. To view Brian and Vicki's profile, visit http://profiles.adoption.com/profiles/db3391.html.

George & Marla (IN)
To welcome a beautiful baby into our lives has been our dream for so many years. We are so happy that you are considering giving the precious gift of your child to a loving family. Please take a small glimpse into our lives through our profile. To view George and Marla's profile, visit http://profiles.adoption.com/profiles/db7945.html.

Larry & Mary (IL)
We would be honored if you would consider us as adoptive parents for your baby. We are lucky to have a loving marriage, good health, and prosperity, but we’ve not been blessed with children. Your courage and selflessness may give us the opportunity to have the family we might not otherwise have. We hope to earn your trust that we would raise your child as we were raised -- with unconditional love and respect. To view Larry and Mary's profile, visit http://profiles.adoption.com/profiles/db9593.html.

Are you pregnant? Visit Profiles.Adoption.com to find the right adoptive parents for your baby.

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6. FEATURED WAITING CHILD

Jeremy is a very engaging child. Recently, he has made a lot of effort to control his behavior. Jeremy has improved his social interaction skills and can now redirect negative behavior. He is a very loving child with a big heart and lots of love to give. Jeremy has been diagnosed as bi-polar and can display slight aggressive behavior. He would benefit from a two parent family that does not have more than one other child in the home.

Photolisting.Adoption.com is a free community service of Adoption.com featuring more than 1,700 children awaiting loving, permanent homes. Add your agency's waiting children to the most popular adoption website, and help them find loving homes faster. E-mail exchange@adoptablekids.com for info.

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7. ADOPTION GEM

8. ADOPTION BUZZ

Birthfamily Post Relinquishment: - Birthparents Parenting Other Biochildren
http://forums.adoption.com/t131754,15,1.html

Search for Birthfamily or Adoptee: - Why Bother Searching Too Long
http://forums.adoption.com/t131320.html

Adoptive Grandparents: - Grandparents Adopting Grandchildren
http://forums.adoption.com/t128374.html

International Adoption Support: - Do I Need a Lawyer & Agency?
http://forums.adoption.com/t129621.html

Birthfamily Post Relinquishment: - Girls In Trouble
http://forums.adoption.com/t132029.html

If any of the links above do not work, visit Adoption.com for direct links to these discussions.

For more online adoption discussions, visit Forums.Adoption.com.

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9. ADOPTION SITE SPOTLIGHT

This week, our adoption spotlight is shining on: Benefits.Adoption.com.

Many employers provide their employees with adoption benefits, such as paid leave, unpaid leave, or adoption reimbursements. Visit Benefits.Adoption.com for a better explanation of the basics of employer adoption benefits.

For a list of our favorite adoption websites, visit Adoptions.Adoption.com.

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10. ADOPTION DESTINATION

InternationalAdoption.org is the internet's authoritative destination for international adoption. You will find fact sheets, adoption information, travel information, culture and heritage, maps, weather, books, currency exchange rates, periodicals, news and much more for dozens of different countries with active international adoption programs.

This week, the country of focus is Chile.

Families interested in adopting in Chile must apply and be approved by SENAME, which keeps the national registry of children eligible for adoption. These children have been declared eligible for adoption by a judge and all parental rights have been terminated. SENAME matches available children with families who wish to adopt. Blood relatives are always given priority, followed by Chilean families, then non-Chilean families.

To learn more about Chile's government, geography, and communication information, or its history, visit Chile.Adoption.com.

Read a Chile adoption-related article at http://library.adoption.com/Chile/International-Adoption-Chile/article/1341/1.html.

To chat with parents who have adopted or are considering adopting from Chile, visit http://forums.adoption.com/forumdisplay.php?forumid=146.

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11. JUST FOR THE FUN OF IT

"...MAKING THEM BE GOOD"

We had a birthday party for our second-grade foster son. My wife and I were amazed at how well-behaved the children were the entire time. When we got home our foster son explained, "They weren't well-behaved. The teacher was just making them be good."

Contributed by: Vince Massi

E-mail your humorous story or joke to editor@adoptionweek.com.

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12. FEATURED ADOPTION PROFESSIONAL

Adoption Network
Lake Forest, CA
Toll Free: 1 (800) FOR-ADOPT
Phone: (949) 499-8400
birthmoms@adoptionpro.com

Adoption Network will conquer your fears and guide you through adoption with comfort, trust, honesty and complete support. Domestic adoptions without red tape. Free services for birthmothers.

Services: • Adoption Agencies • Adoption Attorneys • Adoption Facilitators • Counselors & Therapists • Home Studies • Stepparent Adoption

For more information on Adoption Network, visit http://www.AdoptionNetwork.com/.

Find adoption agencies, attorneys and other adoption professionals at Directory.Adoption.com.

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13. ADOPTIONSHOP.COM PICK

I Child 2004 Calendar - Only $12.50
Celebrating the families of Indian adoptees, this calendar includes pictures of our beautiful children throughout the pages. Also included are special dates for major holidays, including Hindu celebrations. Proceeds benefit the charitable ventures of Ichild Indian Adoption Resources and is dedicated to "those left behind."

For more information and ordering instructions, visit http://adoptionshop.com/cgi-bin/products/IND12204.html.

For more adoption products, visit adoptionshop.com.

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14. COUNSEL FROM AN ADOPTEE AND A BIRTH MOTHER

This section is not intended for search advice. It is meant to be an advice column for people with questions concerning their feelings, interested in the opinion of someone who can relate. The views expressed by this author is solely his own, and for which the author is responsible. The content within this column is not to be considered as professional medical, legal or behavioral health information to be used in diagnosis, treatment or actions that would require the consultation and/or services of a licensed, certified or accredited professional. These views do not necessarily represent the views of Adoption Week e-Magazine.

Question:

Hi,

I'm an adoptee and recently, after searching for some birth relatives, I was informed by Child & Family Services that they had been contacted by my birthmother. She informed them that under the circumstances she was in at this moment, she did not wish to have any contact with me.

Understandably, I was devastated. When CFS questioned her on the whereabouts of the father, she told them he was never named on the birth certificate and was also never informed of the pregnancy.

So here I sit at a standstill. Is there no way she can be forced to surrender that information? There is a man out there who will never know he fathered a child. I think this is unfair, not only to me but him as well...please is there nothing I can do?

DC

DB's Response: DC: I am terribly sorry that your birthmother did not want to have contact with you at this time. Unfortunately, not all birthparents want contact with the children that they relinquished for adoption. Just because she does not want to have contact with you at this time, does not mean that she doesn't care about you. Her decision not to have contact with you sounds like it is based on her situation right now, and may not reflect her feelings down the road. She may change her mind; however, please respect her right to privacy, even from you. That is one right that birthparents have. They do not have to make contact with anyone ever, and if they make the decision not to, they have the right for that choice to be upheld. To answer your questions about forcing her to provide the name of the father, no, there is nothing that can be done. However unfair it is, her right to privacy is protected. I agree with you, that the father should have known and has the right to know. He may have wanted to keep you, but there is nothing that can be done to make here give up that information. DB

Jan's Response: Dear DC, Hopefully, the information you were provided is accurate, but, I know quite often, this is not always the case - just something to keep in mind. It never fails to sadden me when a mother who has relinquished a child refuses contact with them. While I know there are many factors which would lead one to feel unable or unprepared for contact, it seems such a hurtful message to send. I find it hard to understand or accept. However, each of us comes to the possibility of reunion at different points in our lives. Luckily for me, I was at a very stable point in my life and in a strong marriage when my son found me. I am aware though that not everyone is that fortunate. I would guess that possibly your birth mother feels as though she is already overwhelmed with her life and unable to take on more at this time. Reunion is a very emotionally challenging experience, even under the most ideal circumstances. She knows now that you want contact, and she will be thinking hard about it. In order for her to be able to be in touch though, there may be many issues she first must deal with. But, I have seen some dramatic changes in heart over time. As to "forcing" her to volunteer information, I know of a way you can do that. She must have reasons she feels are valid for not providing you with that information, but, I agree you have a right to know, as does your biological father. The only suggestion I might have is to write a letter to her to send through Child & Family Services explaining how important it is to you to know of your heritage. Keep it as respectful and gentle as possible, but emphasize how important it is to you. I hope that your mother realizes what a gift you are offering her and that her circumstances change so that she can accept and enjoy the chance to get to know you! Best of luck, Jan

BIOS:

The author is a 21-year-old adoptee who wants to help those affiliated with the adoption community. Although the author does not have a medical degree, etc., he is simply extending a listening ear and the perspective of a young adult who is involved in the adoption triad.

The co-author, Jan, is a reunited mother of a 34-year-old son who was relinquished at birth. She also has a daughter and a son whom she raised and is a proud grandmother of three. Jan has no counseling credentials or training, but offers her opinions based on her role as an active member of the adoption community.

Their opinions are not necessarily those of Adoption.com and are provided voluntarily on a weekly basis.

To submit your questions to DB, e-mail adoptionquestions2003@yahoo.com

To submit your questions to Jan, e-mail danjanbaker@earthlink.net

In order for your questions/comments to be answered in the next week's issue, questions need to be submitted before 12 noon each Wednesday.

In addition, please remember to keep your questions appropriate for Adoption Week e-Magazine; otherwise, they will not be answered or included in the next week's edition.

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15. SPEAK OUT

Hi. First of all, thank you for this forum. I found my daughter in May in the Adoption Registry after searching for three years. I want to let you know how important it is to put correct information in the boxes. I put Kathy instead of Kathleen all that time. First time I put Kathleen, I found her. I went to the directory on my computer and found her phone number. I called. At first she was very enthused. She came into my game room and we chatted a lot. She doesn't want to meet me, but I feel we know each other pretty well. I'm just happy she went to a beautiful family. Maybe she'll be ready to meet in person; it will be up to her. I am very satisfied at this point. Good luck, and never give up. Kathy Stoughtenger (kstoughtny@verizon.net)

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I'm so happy. Yesterday my family and I found out that my older brother, who was put up for adoption at 1 month old and is 31 now, is alive and well. We've been looking for him on and off for about 10 years. We contacted the agency that was used and they were able to track down some of his family. We don't know much yet, but he is okay and that is what my mother always hoped for. His sister told him that his bio family wanted to contact him and to let him know he has 6 bio sisters and brothers, I guess he was in shock. Apparently he didn't care either way if he found us or not. He may not want to meet us, we don't know yet, but he is okay and that is the best news we could ever receive. To all of you still looking...there is hope, it can happen. Good luck! - Jessica

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Hi, this is to Heidi Stigum in Fresno, CA. Don't give up looking for your Mom. My birthdaughter just recently found me through classmates. It's been wonderful. We have a really great relationship so far. It really made my Thanksgiving & Christmas extra special this year. We discovered each other right before Thanksgiving this year. So don't give up. Have faith and be patient. I hope when you do find each other it will be a wonderful experince. Words can't describe what I felt when we were reunited. Good luck! - Bonnie, in Perry, OH

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My name is Melinda. I was born 11/4/71 in Austin, Texas. I just wanted to thank my birth parents for making a very adult decision at such a young age. My adoptive parents are everything you could hope for! If you want to contact me, please email jimmycross@netzero.net.

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I guess I am a little late in seeing these comments, but I am very concerned about people's judgements on large families. Each of us know what our capabilities are, or at least we should. Some of us are very talented in the secular world and some are not. People who are (in) large families are a blessing from God. These people have talents of loving more than 1 or 2 children. Their talents lie in the fact that they are loving, caring, and responsible parents who are asking no one to support their children. We are proud parents of 12, 11 of whom are adopted, and we are hoping to add one to the family in the near future. All of these children were born of our hearts, and to say that there are too many is just unreal. They all belong in body and spirit. The older children have gone to college, served a mission for their church, and are successful. They are proud that they have a family who loves and cares for them and their siblings. I wish people who disparage large families whould take a second look and remember that all children deserve to have a loving and secure home and future, and if that is in a small or large family...great!!! - K Sitterud, Utah

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Hi, my name is Bernadine Harper. I was born in Detroit, MI on May 21, 1951 at East Side General Hospital. All the records for East Side General are lost. When East Side closed the records were sent to Harrison in Mc Comb County. When Harrison closed the State of Michigan went to retrieve the records, and the room where they were kept was empty. Now the only hope that I have is the doctors records. The doctor that delivered me passed away in 1965, but if I can find his records; I will be able to find my birth family. There is NOT a record of my adoption in the State of Michigan. I assume that my adopted mother paid all expenses involved in my birth. I truly believe that I am what is known as a "black market baby". I do not believe that the State of Michigan (or any other state for that matter) would allow a 50-year-old woman to adopt a baby. I have not disclosed everything about my "adoption" for apparent reasons. I do need to have some way to verify my adoption. I have been trying to find out how to obtain my medical records from the doctor that delivered me, but I have been unsuccessful. I pray that someone can point me in the right direction. Thank you for taking the time to read this. - Bernadine bernih@sbcglobal.net or bmpah2151@yahoo.com

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OK, I'm 46 years old. I was adopted three days after my birth. I was born in Dallas, TX on February 15, 1957. I was born at Stephens Park Hospital. The adoption was done through my a-dad's lawyer. The lawyer that actually did the adoption passed away years ago, as did my a-dad, who I love for adopting me. He has given me everything. I loved him so much. I just learned today that the lawyer drove my a-mom to the hospital and asked her to wait in the car. When he came out, he handed me to her and said, "You now have a beautiful baby boy!!!" My a-mom (84 years old, with Alzheimer ) just remembered that today. She is sooooo proud of me, and I love her with all my heart!!! I'm so glad I was adopted by them, but now I want to find the woman that had to give me up. I know that she loves me, and I need to find her. I'm still close to Dallas, TX. I've lived here all my life. My adoption was in Tarrant County, TX (Fort Worth). I'm still here. I have an amended birth certificate, and I have the adoption decree, but there is no birth mom or dad names on either document. What should I do? My e-mail is wmmsr@juno.com. - Bill Martin

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I just started reading your magazine, and I think it will be most helpful. I am a 35-year-old adoptee who was relinquished at birth, and I have tried to search off and on since I was 18. Nothing but dead ends. My adoption was, let's say, not quite on the up and up. I didn't want my adopted parents to be in trouble. I felt guilty like I was betraying them if I searched very hard, and I didn't really have the financial resources to hire an investigator. I have a birth certificate, but there are no "adoption papers" on me that I know of. I have had lots of conflicting info, so I've never felt real confident w/registries where our info will "match up". I suppose our reunion will happen when and where it's meant to, and I have a strange feeling it will be more by chance. So, as far as I know, I was born in So Cal, January 27 1968, and her name was supposedly Joy Aldridge. Not much to go on...but you never know, if she is looking, she just might see this. My email for anyone who would like to contact me regarding this is cricket85@centurytel.net. - Lori, Arkansas

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16. ADOPTION POETRY

17. ADOPTION CALENDAR

CHAT SCHEDULE:

Sunday:
Reunion Support Group Chat with Loretta in the Search and Reunion room at 6 pm Pacific, 7 pm Mountain, 8 pm Central, 9 pm Eastern

Monday:
Join Dr. Art Becker-Weidman in the hosted chat room at 2 pm Pacific, 3 pm Mountain, 4 pm Central, 5 pm Eastern and ask him questions on attachment therapy and treating children with trauma-attachment disorders.

Adoptee Chat with Thea in the hosted chat room at 6 pm Pacific, 7 pm Mountain, 8 pm Central, 9 pm Eastern. Thea is a caring adoptee that has recently reunited with her birthmother.

Tuesday:
Birth mom chat with Angelwings. Angel is a birthmom and adoptee. Her chat is held in the BirthMother.chat room at 4 pm Pacific, 5 pm Mountain, 6 pm Central, 7 pm Eastern

Birth father's General Support Chat in the hosted chat room with adoptee and birthfather, Terry. All are invited at 6 pm Pacific, 7 pm Mountain, 8 pm central, 9 pm Eastern

Wednesday:
Pre- and adoptive parent chat with JJ and friends - Help as you begin the adoption process. Hosted in Adoptive Parents chat room at 5 pm Pacific, 6 pm Mountain, 7 pm Central, 8 pm Eastern.

Parenting issues for adoptive/foster parents with Dimasmom in FosterCare chat room at 6 pm Pacific, 7 pm Mountain, 8 pm Central, 9 pm Eastern.

Thursday:
Evening with Colleen Buckner, search expert, in Search and Reunion chat room at 6 pm Pacific, 7 pm Mountain, 8 pm Central, 9 pm Eastern.

Friday:
If you are having a "limbo" type experience with your reunion, come and talk it over with those who've "been there-done that" themselves. Join co-hosting birth mothers, April and Judy, in the Search and Reunion room on Fridays: 5 pm Pacific, 6 pm Mountain, 7 pm Central, 8 pm Eastern.

Saturday:
Older child adoption/foster care behavioral issues with Jerry in FosterCare chat room at 6 pm Pacific, 7 pm Mountain, 8 pm Central, 9 pm Eastern.

For a listing of times and descriptions and to attend scheduled chats, or join the live chat, visit Forums.Adoption.com/Chat.

ADOPTION EVENTS:

PRE-ADOPTION SUPPORT GROUP - Eight Tuesday Evenings
January 6 - Feb. 24 (7 pm - 9 pm)
San Jose
Resolve of Northern California
Explore your questions and concerns about adoption, and enjoy peer support while you learn about the adoption process. This support group provides information and support about the decision to adopt, and about all types of adoption. Led by Sara Lively, founder of Adoption Paths, an educational organization independent of any adoption agency. For more information and to register (831)476-7252 or visit http://www.AdoptionPaths.com.

PARENTING THE HURT CHILD
January 29 (6:30 pm - 9:30 pm)
Beechbrook, 3737 Lander Road, Fenn Center, Pepper Pike, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Presenter: Regina Kupecky
RSVP: Free workshop. Foster parent training certificates and social work/counselor CEU¹s provided. Registration is required, please call (216) 881-7511. Registration closes 3 day prior to workshop.

KOREAN ADOPTEE GATHERING - CHICAGO
January 29 (7:00 pm - 8:00 pm)
Korean American Resource & Cultural Center (KRCC) 2701 A West Peterson Avenue (just east of California Ave on Peterson)
A monthly gathering to... *learn more about yourself while exploring Korean adoptee issues *validate the authentic experiences of adoptees & how we make sense of our experiences of home, community *share how we are affected by gendered racism, sexuality, and culture *connect with historical and political struggles associated with intercountry and transracial adoptions from adoptee perspectives. Please RSVP to Becky at bbelcore@hotmail.com and Tammy at tkrobins@eartlink.net, or call (773) 506-9158. If possible, try to check out the following links available on-line about adoption history and Korean history on-line beforehand: http://www.pbs.org/pov/pov2000/firstpersonplural/.

ADOPTIVE PARENTS' ADOPTION EDUCATION CLASS
January 31 (9:00 am - 3:00 pm)
Towson Presbyterian Church - Chesapeake Ave. - Towson, MD 21204
FACE (Families Adopting Children Everywhere, Inc)
Course Calendar: an introduction to adoption and the characteristics common to all adoption; discussion on how to select an agency; review of international adoption, countries available, process, paperwork, cost, etc; introduction to domestic and independent adoptions a discussion of issues with adoption professionals; meeting adoptive families and an introduction to basic issues in adoptive family life. For information on public, private, and independent adoption, call (410) 488-2656, or visit http://www.faceadoptioninfo.org.

YOU CAN AFFORD ADOPTION - Free Seminar
January 31 (9:30 am-12:30 pm)
University of Texas at Arlington (Dallas-Ft Worth area), Bluebonnet Ballroom - South
A Mother's Charm
Considering adoption? Know someone who is? This seminar will spotlight the variety of resources and ideas available for prospective adoptive parents. There will be presentations on adoption financial planning, obtaining loans and grants, expertise from adoption professionals on how agencies can help financially, and advice from adoptive families concerning fund-raising and how to use your funds wisely in the "process". Adoption experts from a variety of agencies (specializing in domestic and international adoptions) will also host information booths throughout the seminar. To learn more and to register for the event, go to motherscharm.com/events.php or call (888) 924-2767.

INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION SEMINAR
January 31 (9:30 am - 4:30 pm)
Holy Cross Lutheran Church, 13014 Olive Blvd, Creve Coeur, MO
Dillon International, Inc.
International adoption can be a wonderful experience. Meet adoptive families, their children, and staff members of Dillon International, Inc. The cost is $60.00 for a married couple and $50.00 for a single adult applicant. The fee covers lunch and seminar materials. Facilities do not provide for childcare. To register, email bev@dillonadopt.com, or call (918) 749-4600 for details.
Website: http://www.dillonadopt.com/Seminars%20and%20Workshops.htm

THE LIFELONG IMPACT OF ADOPTION - Lecture & discussion by Marlou Russell, Ph.D.
January 31 (1:00 pm - 4:00 pm)
Santa Monica College, Madison Campus, 1310 11th Street, Room #117, Santa Monica CA 90401
This class is for adult adoptees, birth parents, adoptive parents, those considering adoption, therapists, attorneys, the media, and anyone interested in the emotional and psychological aspects of adoption. This class is $35 per person with free parking on campus. For more information contact: Marlou Russell, Ph.D. at 1452 26th Street, Suite 103 Santa Monica, CA 90404, by phone (310) 829-1438, via e-mail marlourussell@hotmail.com, or visit http://www.marlourussellphd.com

EXPLORING ADOPTION: AN EDUCATIONAL SERIES
January 31 - February 21 (3:00 pm - 5:00 pm on four Saturday afternoons) Santa Cruz, CA
Adoption Paths
Explore your questions and concerns along with other people who are interested in adopting. This educational series provides extensive and unbiased information about all types of adoption. Taught by Sara Lively, founder of Adoption Paths, an educational organization independent of any adoption agency. For more information and to register, (831) 476-6252 or visit http://www.AdoptionPaths.com.

BIRTHPARENT SUPPORT MEETING
February 4 (6:30 pm - 8:30 pm)
Adoption Network Cleveland, 1667 East 40th St. Suite B-1, Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Birthparents who have placed a child for adoption. For more information, call (216) 881-7511 or visit http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

ROCKY RIVER GENERAL MEETING
February 5 (7:30 pm - 9:30 pm)
West Shore Unitarian Church, 20401 Hilliard Blvd., Rocky River, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend. For more information, call (216) 881-7511 or visit http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

ABC'S OF INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION
February 5 (6:00 pm - 8:00 pm) Jones Center for Families, 922 E. Emma, Springdale, AR
Dillon International, Inc.
During this Free informational meeting, attendees will be given an overview of the process of international adoption, individual country requirements and adoption costs. In addition, they will be given information on waiting children from South Korea, China, India, Ukraine, Vietnam, Haiti, and Guatemala. Please call Lisa at (501) 248-1145 or email mllovell@centurytel.net for details, or visit http://www.dillonadopt.com/Seminars%20and%20Workshops.htm.

INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION SEMINAR
February 7 (9:30 am - 4:30 pm)
Dillon International Office, 3227 E. 31st Street, Tulsa, OK
Dillon International, Inc.
International adoption can be a wonderful experience. Meet adoptive families, their children, and staff members of Dillon International, Inc. The cost for this one day seminar is $60.00 for a married couple and $50.00 for a single adult applicant. The fee covers lunch and seminar materials. Facilities do not provide for childcare. To register, email bev@dillonadopt.com for details, or visit http://www.dillonadopt.com/Seminars%20and%20Workshops.htm.

RUSSIAN & KAZAKSTAN ADOPTION PROGRAM SEMINAR
February 7 (10:00 am - 12:00 pm)
Pine Creek Commons Office Complex, 2450 Atlanta Hwy, Unit 1204 Cummuning, GA 30040
AAA Partners in Adoption
Free informational seminar for prospective adoptive parents that are interested in adopting an infant or toddler from Russia, surrounding regions, and Kazakhstan. Registration is required. Call (770) 844-2080 for more information. (AAA PIA does the placement of child and the homestudy for this program.)

ADOPTION 101: WHERE DO I BEGIN?
February 7 (12:30 pm – 5:00 pm)
Adoption Network Cleveland, 1667 East 40th St. Suite B-1, Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
A workshop for people who are looking into adoption for the first time. Who can attend: Open to the public. RSVP Registration is $35/person or $45/couple before 2-4-03. Registration after 2-4-03 or at the door is $40/person or $50/couple. Seating is limited, so please call (216) 881-7511 to register early.

ABC'S OF INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION
February 10 (6:00 pm - 8:00 pm)
First United Methodist Church at 6701 JFK Blvd, North Little Rock, AR
Dillon International, Inc.
During this Free informational meeting, attendees will be given an overview of the process of international adoption, individual country requirements and adoption costs. In addition, they will be given information on waiting children from South Korea, China, India, Ukraine, Vietnam, Haiti, and Guatemala. Please call Kimberly Alls at (501) 791-9300 or email DillonArkansas@dillonadopt.com for details, or visit http://www.dillonadopt.com/Seminars%20and%20Workshops.htm.

AKRON GENERAL MEETING
February 11 (7:30 pm - 9:30 pm)
Akron General Health and Wellness Center, 4125 Medina Road, Akron, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend. For more information, call (216) 881-7511 or visit http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

* MOVIE VIEWING AND DISCUSSION OF ANTWONE FISHER
February 12 (6:00 pm)
Adoption Network Cleveland, 1667 East 40th St. Suite B-1, Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Open to the public. "Finding Fish" by Antwone Fisher is the book that will be promoted in Cleveland and read city-wide through North Coast Neighbors Share a Book this winter. Adoption Network Cleveland will participate in the program through this movie viewing and the book discussions listed below with an asterick. For more information on the other public programs featuring Antwone Fisher visit http://www.camls.org. For more information, call (216) 881-7511 or visit http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

DOWNTOWN CLEVELAND GENERAL MEETING
February 13 [12:00 pm – 1:30 pm (Bring lunch if you wish)] Adoption Network Cleveland, 1667 East 40th St. Suite B-1, Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend. For more information, call (216) 881-7511 or visit http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

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