2. NEW ARTICLES

The views expressed by the authors are solely their own, and for which the authors are responsible. These views do not necessarily represent the views of Adoption Week e-Magazine.

My 3 Angels - new article by Jacquelie Horan Timins
I had been grieving most of my adult life with many family tragedies, and this story is about my first joy and waking up from a slumber of sadness and beginning a new life filled with joy...almost like being reborn so to speak. http://e-magazine.adoption.com/article.php?articleid=273

Tough Times Get Better - new article by Beth Sorrentino
I believe that getting pregnant with my son saved my life, because it made me come back to reality and realize that I need to get my life together. I dropped out of high school, and after my daughter went to live with her grandmother, I was drinking heavily for almost 2 years every single night, then I found out was pregnant with my son I stopped. After I had him I went a program Job Corps and got my GED and a trade and was there for 2 years and just graduated last December and am now working full time. http://e-magazine.adoption.com/article.php?articleid=274

Even at 65 - new article by Sandra Moore
I did not make the first contact with her. I gave her time to absorb all that was happening and finally, after a couple of weeks, I wrote to her telling her that I needed no explanation of any kind about my birth, wanted nothing from her except to meet her and possibly have a relationship with her. Then she wrote, I wrote again, and then she called me. It was wonderful to hear her voice and we almost felt we knew each other by then. http://e-magazine.adoption.com/article.php?articleid=275

Read these articles or contribute an article at http://e-magazine.adoption.com.

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3. ADOPTION NEWS

Coach, Wife Appear with Son Given for Adoption (NJ)
http://espn.go.com/nfl/news/2003/0521/1557385.html

Plan Seeks To Accelerate Adoptions (NY)
http://www.adoption.com/includes/frame.php?url=http://1010wins.com/topstories/winstopstories_story_141071437.html

Family Picks up Adoptive Child from China Despite SARS Risk (IL)
http://www.myinky.com/ecp/gleaner_news/article/0,1626,ECP_4476_1976699,00.html

Adoption Fills Nest of Hearts (TN)
http://www.adoption.com/includes/frame.php?url=http://www.theleafchronicle.com/news/stories/20030521/localnews/337741.html

She's Quite A Catch (WA)
http://www.adoption.com/includes/frame.php?url=http://www.tribnet.com/sports/story/3156498p-3181142c.html

If any of the links to the news articles do not work, visit http://www.adoption.com/news for a list of headlines.

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4. ADOPTION BOOK CLUB


THE SAME SMILE
Susan is sixteen, unmarried and pregnant and about to make a choice no woman should ever be forced to make--surrender the precious child she is carrying to adoption. A promise is made, and then, years later, that promise is broken when, yet again, tragedy strikes in her life. This is her true story...


For more information on this book, visit http://adoptionshop.com/cgi-bin/products/ADP11112.html.

Find 7,000+ other adoption products at AdoptionShop.com.

To share your favorite adoption book with others, join the Adoption Book Club on AdoptionLists.com at http://adoptionlists. com/index.php?action=lists&listname=adoptionbookclub.

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5. MEET NEW HOPEFUL ADOPTIVE PARENTS

Outdated material has been removed. Please visit ParentProfiles.com.

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Adoption is music to our ears...now it can be for you, too.




Adoption.com's new adoption CD, "Adoption...The Songs You Love", is dedicated to everyone who has been touched by adoption in one way or another. ORDER YOUR CD! http://adoptionshop.com/cgi-bin/products/ADP00022.html




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6. FEATURED WAITING CHILD

Eddie is a very sweet, affectionate young man. He has the capabilities of being very considerate to adults and wants their approval. He struggles some in school and is in classroom settings that assist him in these struggles. Eddie needs a family with a strong interest in sports and sport related activities. He would do well in a family that exhibits strong family values. Eddie’s family will need to be willing to support his strong feelings and ties he has to his birth family. It would be wonderful if Eddie’s new family would allow him to have visits or contact with his siblings that have been placed separately into adoption.

http://photolisting.adoption.com is a free community service of Adoption.com featuring more than 1,800 children awaiting loving, permanent homes.

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7. ADOPTION BUZZ

Successful Reunions: - Reunited
http://www.adoptionforums.com/t104193.html

Foster Child Adoption Support: - Dealing with Losing Child...
http://www.adoptionforums.com/t102427.html

Dialogue Between Adoptive Mothers and Birthmothers: - Is An Adoption Book Okay to Give?
http://www.adoptionforums.com/t104477.html

Poetry: - Just A Poem
http://www.adoptionforums.com/t102772.html

If any of the links above do not work, visit Adoption.com for direct links to these discussions.

For more online adoption discussions, visit http://www.AdoptionForums.com.

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8. ADOPTION GEM

9. ADOPTION SITE SPOTLIGHT

This week, our adoption spotlight is shining on: AdoptionDNA.com

Are you seeking a reunion with a birth mother or child? Do you think you’ve found your birth mother or child, but you aren’t completely sure? Are you about to adopt a child?

If you answered "Yes" to any of these questions, then you may be a candidate for DNA Identification testing, which is the only way to conclusively determine biological relationships.

For more information, visit http://www.AdoptionDNA.com.

For a list of our favorite adoption websites, visit http://adoptions.adoption.com.

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10. ADOPTION DESTINATIONS

InternationalAdoption.org is the internet's authoritative destination for international adoption. You will find fact sheets, adoption information, travel information, culture and heritage, maps, weather, books, currency exchange rates, periodicals, news and much more for dozens of different countries with active international adoption programs.

This week, the country of focus is Guatemala.

Guatemala was freed of Spanish colonial rule in 1821. During the second half of the 20th century, it experienced a variety of military and civilian governments as well as a 36-year guerrilla war. In 1996, the government signed a peace agreement formally ending the conflict, which had led to the death of more than 100,000 people and had created some 1 million refugees.

To learn more about the Guatemala's government, geography, and communication information, or its history, visit http://Guatemala.adoption.com/.

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11. JUST FOR THE FUN OF IT

A daddy was listening to his child say his prayer, "Dear Harold..."

At this, dad interrupted and said, "Wait a minute. How come you called God "Harold"?

The little boy looked up and said, "That's what they call Him in church. You know the prayer we say: "Our Father, who art in Heaven, Harold be Thy name."

E-mail your humorous story or joke to editor@adoptionmedia.com.

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12. FEATURED ADOPTION PROFESSIONAL

West Sands Adoption
Provo, UT
Phone: (801) 377-4379
anneisom@westsandsadoption.org

Services: • Adoption Agencies • Counselors & Therapists • Home Studies • International Adoption

Countries: • China • Haiti

For more information on West Sands Adoption, visit http://www.WestSandsAdoption.org/.

Find adoption agencies, attorneys and other adoption professionals at http://directory.adoption.com.

To see your ad here, visit http://adoptiondirectory.com/upgrade.php.

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13. ADOPTIONSHOP.COM PICK

I Am Chosen (Brights Version) - Only $29.95

I AM CHOSEN is a memory scrapbook designed to flex with varying adoption situations - different age children, different nationalities, etc. This book incorporates written thoughts and space for photos on acid-free paper to provide a lifelong keepsake for your child. Sprinkled with upbeat quotes, it contains 45 pages for written words & photos on acid-free card stock. SAMPLE PAGES INCLUDE · First Greeting · Anticipation · Little Victories · How You Grew · Health Record · Across the World· Funny Things You Said · In the News and much more.


For more information and ordering instructions, visit http://adoptionshop.com/cgi-bin/products/JLO00001.html.

For more adoption products, visit http://adoptionshop.com.

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14. SOUND COUNSEL

Question:

I am a birth mom of three children. My oldest daughter was 15 when she and I found each other. We were both looking at the same time; I had prayed for many days for God to help me find her. As it turned out, it was a very bad reunion as she had been sexually molested by the adopted family (which at the time I did not know). Three of the adopted brothers and an uncle in the family had done this to her. I did not find this out until she was 20, and the problem now is she has so much anger towards me because this happened to her that she refuses contact with me. She blames me for her being molested. She is now 25 with 2 sons married;, she also refuses counseling. My younger daughter that is 23 also with a son talks with her on a regular basis. I found her last year, the day before Thanksgiving. We are getting along great. She has no anger at all towards me. She was placed with very wonderful and loving parents. It's sad but her adopted Mom has passed away (also me and her look just alike. I am truly blessed)...What can I do at this point, as I want a relationship with my daughter!? She recently contacted her birth father. The two of them had blood tests to prove he is her dad. Their relationship is going very well. He could never have kids with his wife, so now he has an instant daughter and 2 grandsons. I am also in a search for my 20-year-old son which will soon be 21 in July. Please advise me on what I need to do that will be best for my daughter at this time. I love her very much, but she doesn't believe me. Thank You in advance for your reply.

Answer:

I am not sure I understand all of the details behind this situation. From the first part of your email, it seems like you two had a relationship from the time she was 15 to the time she was 20 before you found out about the molestation. How was the relationship during that five year period? What caused her to suddenly decide she wanted to blame you for the unfortunate circumstances she suffered through? In addition, why was she trying to find you if she blamed you all along? These are loaded, but important questions.

I am sorry that you have to go through all of this. It is not fair for your daughter to blame you for what happened, as you had no control over the circumstances. It is also unfortunate that she refuses counseling. More so than anything, that is certainly the best for her.

I must be honest, you cannot force your daughter to forgive you or accept a relationship with you. That, unfortunately, is a fact of life. I find it strange, however, that she blames you, but not her father, for what happened to her. She must understand that giving a child up for adoption is a joint decision (in most cases). I assume her father had as much say in the adoption as you did.

My first suggestion is trying to talk to her father (assuming you still keep in contact with him). Maybe your daughter has talked about the situation with him. This may help you answer some important questions. Also, maybe you can talk to your other daughter about what is going on. She too may be able to shed some light on the situation.

My only other pro-active suggestion is to write her a letter explaining how you feel. Other than that, you may just want to leave her be. If you try and force it too much, you could lose all possibility of resolution.

Just remember, life will always play itself out for the best, whether you see it that way or not. It's how you chose to use those circumstances in your life that make all the difference.

Best wishes,

DB

Question:

I am an adoptive parent. How would I go about finding my son's birth mother? He wants to find her, but is reluctant to take the first steps which may be expensive. I am willing to cover all his expenses.

M.V.

Answer:

M.

Congratulations; I have deemed you "Parent of the Year"! That is so wonderful that you want to help your son find his biological mother. You serve as an example for the support adopted children/young adults/adults need in their lives.

That being said, you are correct to assume the possibility of expense. It is possible for this to be an expensive search, then again it may also not be. It depends on the circumstances behind the adoption, which state the adoption took place in, etc.

I would start by doing some research on your own (with your son, of course). Try researching the adoption laws in the state your son was adopted. This will help you better understand your rights to different forms of information (i.e., non-identifying medical information, full disclosure, etc.). Some states have registries for people involved in the adoption process that allow a person to register their name with the registry. If the other party has done the same, the registry will contact you. Other states allow full disclosure upon a simple written request (sometimes with a fee). Without knowing which state your son was adopted in, I cannot give anything more specific.

In addition, I suggest looking into the adoption papers (assuming you still have them in a safety deposit box or something of the like). From personal experience, I would never have found out my biological mother's name without doing just that. Once you have a name, if you decide to use a private investigator or search service, it makes the process easier than having just a Jane/John Doe.

If you chose to use a search service or private investigator, please make sure you do your research before hand. Ask for references and actually interview those references. Make sure they were happy with the results. Many times, these companies will "guarantee results"; however, they never specify satisfactory results. It is financially risky to get involved with investigators. It is easy to be taken advantage of. That's why I suggest doing as much investigation on your own as possible.

My last piece of advice is to not give up. This realistically will not be successful in the first day, week, month or even few years. There is always a possibility that it will never be successful. That's doesn't mean you shouldn't try, but rather, keep yours and your son's expectations realistic.

Again, I would like to personally thank you for being such a supportive and understand parent. Your son is very lucky.

Good luck with your search,

DB

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In addition, please remember to keep your questions appropriate for Adoption Week e-Magazine; otherwise, they will not be answered or included in the next week's edition.

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15. SPEAK OUT

This is so hard: I am not an adoptee, or a birth mother, but I am an aunt looking for her neice and nephews. I have looked everywhere that I can. They were taken from their mother in October 1992 in Wichita, Kansas. Their names are Crystal Lee Mckown and Sean Paul Mckown. Crystal is 21 years old, and Sean is 19. If anyone can help me, I would greatly appreciate it. They have two other brothers as well, but because of their ages, I cannot even try to look for them. - Sandra Mckown

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I am looking for my birth parents. I was born on 07/20/54 in Beth El hospital in Brooklyn, New York and was placed for adoption by in March 1955. My birth mother's name was Miriam Rosenberg. If you have information that can help in my search, please e-mail me at dgrubman@hahnhessen.com.

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I am 50 years old; I was a foster parent. I adopted 2 boys (not related). I was then informed one of my sons had a sibling; he was in another foster home. I got in touch with CPS and ended up adopting the brother. I was later informed a sister was born to my boys; she was in another foster home. I tried to get her. The other foster parents got a lawyer after 10 months, the judge felt it best she stay where she was. She didn't know us. Meanwhile, the mother had another child; we went to court and the judge placed her with me with and her brothers. She is 9 months old; her brothers are 2 and 4. My other son is 7. To see these children together is a joy. Although I fought hard to keep them together, I was also afraid, a person my age taking on so many children, butIi have never regretted what I have done, and everyday I see them interact and enjoy each other, I am glad the judge placed them together with me. - Pam Gilbert

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My daughter's birthday is May 29, 1985. She was born at St. Paul Catholic Hospital in Dallas, TX. Issues that arose through the adoption process prevented the adoption for the birth parents for six months (I am not sure if they knew this, but it may be helpful). I believe she was named Brianna during that time, and I did visit my daughter during this time. Her adoptive parents sent me pictures for a while. She is a beautiful brown-eyed, brown-haired girl. For 18 years, I have dreamed of the day that we would meet again. After she was born, I enjoyed 'rooming in' with her to savor every moment with her even though it was not advised by the adoption personnel. I and my family loved her and held her close. We prayed that this would not be the last time we were ever to have her with us; she is always present in our memories. If you are my daughter, or if you know how I can contact her, please contact me at suz_booth@sbcglobal.net. I will continue other avenues to find you, and please know that I Love You and Always Have.

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I am 73, was adopted in 1930 in Grand Rapids, MI. Found my birthmother in 1974 & lived with her from 1976 till her death in 1987. I have tried to locate my father & am batting zero. Any help or suggestions beside the usual things. I know his name & occupation, that's it. He was a professional musician; they traveled a lot in those days. Have tried several musicians unions -- nothing, but it didn't surprise me as my mother didn't know where he was from. Chances are he's dead by now, or in his 90's. Help is what I need. Thanks, Dorothy Kovarik

To Speak Out and share your opinion or a comment, or to respond to a message, e-mail editor@adoptionmedia.com.

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16. ADOPTION ONLINE SUPPORT GROUP REVIEW

Here's a recent post from the Adoptee Support group:

Hi Jill,

Thanks for your reply. I have a confidential intermediary at WARM who is conducting a search, I am however looking for a person I met in Kennewick named Cheryl Staley. She is searching for her cousin who was adopted through the same Dr. Richard Morton. She and I corresponded several times a few years ago and I've lost track of her. She no longer has the same e-mail, and I was unable to get her phone number through information. I wanted to contact her and find out the name of the attorney who arranged her cousin's adoption because I believe it may be the same attorney who arranged mine. My original birth certificate has very little information on it. It only has the b-mom name and the state she is originally from. No birthday or father info. If you think you might be able to help me find Cheryl Staley (her married name) it would be greatly appreciated. I know you're not in Kennewick, but maybe one of your relatives knows her? Let me know what you think... Many thanks!

Kelli

To be part of this group, or one of 70+ other adoption-related online e- mail discussion groups, visit http://AdoptionLists.com, register, and join.

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17. ADOPTION POETRY

LIFE GIVERS

You did not give me the gift of life,
but in my heart I know
the love I feel is so deep and real
as if it had been so.
You did not give me the gift of life,
but rather the chance to live...
to love; to learn; to laugh;
to cry; but most importantly, to give.
You did not give me the gift of life,
and that's ok with me.
For no matter what, you're my parents
for all eternity!
For us to have each other
is like a dream come true.
No, you did not give me the gift of life;
Life gave me the gift of you!

Dedicated to my wonderful adoptive parents who are my
best friends in the world!

by Jaime Frodyma

For more adoption poetry, visit http://poetry.adoption.com.

Submit your adoption poetry to editor@adoptionmedia.com.

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18. ADOPTION CALENDAR

CHAT SCHEDULE:

Sunday:
Reunion Support Group Chat with Loretta in the Search and Reunion room at 6pm Pacific, 7pm Mountain, 8pm Central, 9pm Eastern

Monday:
Join Dr. Art Becker-Weidman in the hosted chat room at 2pm Pacific, 3pm Mountain, 4pm Central, 5pm Eastern and ask him questions on attachment therapy and treating children with trauma-attachment disorders.

Adoptee Chat with Thea in the hosted chat room at 6pm Pacific, 7pm Mountain, 8pm Central, 9pm Eastern. Thea is a caring adoptee that has recently reunited with her birthmother.

Tuesday:
Birth mom chat with Angelwings. Angel is a birthmom and adoptee. Her chat is held in the BirthMother.chat room at 4pm Pacific, 5pm Mountain, 6pm Central, 7pm Eastern

Birth father's General Support Chat in the hosted chat room with adoptee and birthfather, Terry. All are invited at 6pm Pacific, 7pm Mountain, 8pm central, 9pm Eastern

Attachment Disorder: A Journey of Hope Chat with Parent Nancy Geoghegan; educational weekly chat at 7pm Pacific, 8pm Mountain, 9pm Central, 10pm Eastern

Wednesday:
Pre- and adoptive parent chat with JJ and friends - Help as you begin the adoption process. Hosted in Adoptive Parents chat room at 5pm Pacific, 6pm Mountain, 7pm Central, 8pm Eastern.

Parenting issues for adoptive/foster parents with Dimasmom in FosterCare chat room at 6pm Pacific, 7pm Mountain, 8pm Central, 9pm Eastern.

Join an informative chat on the ups and downs of reunion hosted by Sabra since 1997. Talk out your next step and share your experiences in search and reunion at 7pm Pacific, 8pm Mountain, 9pm Central, 10pm Eastern in the Search and Reunion chat room.

Thursday:
Evening with Colleen Buckner, search expert, in Search and Reunion chat room at 6pm Pacific, 7pm Mountain, 8pm Central, 9pm Eastern.

Friday:
If you are having a "limbo" type experience with your reunion, come and talk it over with those who've "been there-done that" themselves. Join co-hosting birth mothers, April and Judy, in the Search and Reunion room on Fridays: 5pm Pacific, 6pm Mountain, 7pm Central, 8pm Eastern.

Saturday:
Older child adoption/foster care behavioral issues with Jerry in FosterCare chat room at 6pm Pacific, 7pm Mountain, 8pm Central, 9pm Eastern.

For a listing of times and descriptions and to attend scheduled chats, or join the live chat, visit http://forums.adoption.com/chat.

ADOPTION EVENTS:

FREE TRAINING FOR PROSPECTIVE ADOPTIVE AND FOSTER PARENTS OR KINSHIP CAREGIVERS
Series: May 13 - May 31 (Times vary per day; please call for specific times. Each segment is 3 hours long.)
1667 East 40th St. Suite B-1, Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Program: Pre-placement training for prospective adoptive/foster/kinship caregivers through the Ohio Child Welfare Training Program. Topics include: Orientation and overview of foster care/adoption/kinship care;family systems and abuse and neglect; attachment, sexual abuse. Attendees: Prospective adoptive parents, foster parents, or kinship caregivers. RSVP: There is no cost for attending, but registration is required at least 3 days in advance on a space available basis. Please call (216) 881-7511 to register. Foster parent training credits will be given.

WICKLIFFE GENERAL MEETING - Topic: Loss
May 27 (7:30 - 9:30 pm)
Schrembs Hall, CSS, 28700 Euclid Ave., Wickliffe, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Attendees: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend.

INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION SUPPORT MEETING - Topic: School Issues & Advocacy
May 28 (7:00 - 8:30 pm)
Euclid Public Library, Erie Room, 631 E. 222nd. St., Euclid, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Attendees: Adoptive parents or prospective adoptive parents of internationally adopted children. No registration or membership is required to attend.

INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION SESSION
May 29 (7:00 pm - 9:00 pm)
First Baptist Church of Jonesboro
Genesis Adoptions
Thousands of children around the world dream of finding loving and permanent homes. Learn the process of international adoption. Free, but please call to pre-register (678) 432-9118. This session will also be held on June 26th, July 31st, Aug. 28th and Sept. 25th.

MASS OF HOPE FOR COUPLES AND INDIVIDUALS WHO ARE WAITING
June 1 (12:45 pm)
Old St. Patrick's Church, 700 West Adams, Chicago (downtown), Illinois
The Fertility Support Group
After Mass, there will be a presentation on how our faith can get us through the difficult times of adoption and infertility. To RSVP, or for more information, contact Wina at (773) 581-7724.

A JOURNEY OF A THOUSAND MILES BEGINS WITH ONE STEP
June 4 (6:30 pm - 8:00 pm)
Brighton Public Library (Brighton, MI)
AAC Adoption and Family Network
Free informational meeting; an evening of information for anyone interested in adopting from China. Please call Kim at (810) 844-0278 or e-mail mamakgreen@yahoo.com to register today!

BIRTH PARENT SUPPORT MEETING
June 4 (6:30 - 8:30 pm)
Adoption Network Cleveland, 1667 East 40th St. Suite B-1, Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Birthparents who have given up a child for adoption. For more information, contact Adoption Network Cleveland at (216) 881-7511, or on the web at http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

ROCKY RIVER GENERAL MEETING
June 5 (7:30 - 9:30 pm)
West Shore Unitarian Church, 20401 Hilliard Blvd., Rocky River, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend. For more information, contact Adoption Network Cleveland at (216) 881-7511, or on the web at http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

ADOPTION 101: WHERE DO I BEGIN?
June 7 (12:00 ­ 4:30 pm)
Adoption Network Cleveland, 1667 East 40th St. Suite B-1, Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Program: A workshop for people who are looking into adoption for the first time.
Who can attend: Open to the public.
RSVP: Registration is $35/person or $45/couple before 06-04-03. Registration after 06-04-03, or at the door, is $40/person or $50/couple. Seating is limited, so please call (216) 881-7511 to register early.

OPENNESS IN ADOPTION
June 10 (7:00 - 8:30 pm)
Heights Parent Center, 1700 Crest Road, Cleveland Heights, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Speaker: Maureen Heffernan
Who can attend: Fee for non-members. Child care available. Please call to register at (216) 321-0079.

HOW TO ADOPT WORKSHOP FOR NY & NJ RESIDENTS
June 11, July 9, August 13 (6:00 - 8:00 pm)
130 East 59 Street (UJA-Federation), Manhattan
$25 per person
Ametz Adoption Program, JCCA
A good place to start if you are just thinking about adoption. Includes domestic and international adoption options, working with attorneys and agencies, costs, time frames, adoption home studies and first steps. Presentations by Ametz and international adoption agency staff. Questions are encouraged. For more information or to register, please contact Susan Kupferberg at (212) 558-9949 or e-mail ametz@jccany.org.

AKRON GENERAL MEETING ­ Topic: Control
June 11 (7:30 - 9:30 pm)
Akron General Health and Wellness Center, 4125 Medina Road, Akron, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend. For more information, contact Adoption Network Cleveland at (216) 881-7511, or on the web at http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

DOWNTOWN CLEVELAND GENERAL MEETING ­ NEW
June 13 (11:00 am ­ 1:00 pm) - Bring lunch if you wish
Adoption Network Cleveland, 1667 East 40th St. Suite B-1, Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend. For more information, contact Adoption Network Cleveland at (216) 881-7511, or on the web at http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

LISTENING & COMMUNICATION SKILLS FOR FAMILIES
June 18 (6:00 ­ 9:00 pm) - Bring lunch if you wish
Berea Children¹s Home, Center City Office, 2121 East 32nd St., Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Presenter: Kim Langley
RSVP: Free workshop. Foster parent training certificates and social work/counselor CEU's provided. Registration is required, please call (216) 881-7511. Registration closes 3 day prior to workshop.

PARENTING WITH EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
June 21 (9:00 am ­ 4:00 pm) - Bring lunch if you wish
Berea Children¹s Home, Center City Office, 2121 East 32nd St., Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Presenter: Kim Langley
RSVP: Free workshop. Foster parent training certificates and social work/counselor CEU's provided. Registration is required, please call (216) 881-7511. Registration closes 3 day prior to workshop.

NEW WAYS TO MANAGE DIFFICULT BEHAVIOR: PUTTING SOME FUN BACK IN PARENTING
June 23 (6:00 ­ 9:00 pm) - Bring lunch if you wish
Adoption Network Cleveland, 1667 East 40th St. Suite B-1, Cleveland, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Presenter: Arleta James
RSVP: Free workshop. Foster parent training certificates and social work/counselor CEU's provided. Registration is required, please call (216) 881-7511. Registration closes 3 day prior to workshop.

MISUNDERSTOOD MINDS: Getting a Handle on Learning Differences (Disabilities)
June 24 (9:30 am ­ 12:30 pm) - Bring lunch if you wish
BeechBrook, 3737 Lander Rd., Pepper Pike, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Presenter: Kim Langley
RSVP: Free workshop. Foster parent training certificates and social work/counselor CEU's provided. Registration is required, please call (216) 881-7511. Registration closes 3 day prior to workshop.

LAKE COUNTY GENERAL MEETING ­ New Location
June 24 (7:30 ­ 9:00 pm)
Deepwood North Apartments, Rental Office/Community Room, 8100 Deepwood Blvd. (off Rt. 84) Mentor, Ohio. Follow signs to rental office.
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Adult adoptees, birthparents, siblings, adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents, professionals and anyone who is interested in lifelong adoption issues. No registration or membership is required to attend. For more information, contact Adoption Network Cleveland at (216) 881-7511, or on the web at http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION SUPPORT MEETING
June 25 (7:00 ­ 8:30 pm)
Euclid Public Library, Erie Room, 631 E. 222nd. St., Euclid, Ohio
Adoption Network Cleveland
Who can attend: Adoptive parents or prospective adoptive parents of internationally adopted children. No registration or membership is required to attend. For more information, contact Adoption Network Cleveland at (216) 881-7511, or on the web at http://www.AdoptionNetwork.org.

WORKSHOP FOR PROSPECTIVE ADOPTIVE PARENTS CONSIDERING CHINA ADOPTION
June 28 (11:00 am - 1:00 pm)
Three Oaks Library, 3 North Elm St., Three Oaks, MI
Great Wall China Adoption
Free workshop for prospective adoptive parents and others seeking more information about adopting from China. Couples from ages 30 to 55 are eligible to adopt. A Great Wall China Adoption representative who has just completed her adoption will be presenting. For further information or to reserve a place at the workshop, please contact Kim Bakos at (269) 429-6292 or by e-mail at kimberbakos@yahoo.com.

18TH ANNUAL ARCHEOLOGY: Summer Intensives on Adoption and Complex Families
July 7 - 8 (Session I; 8:00 am - 4:00 pm)
July 9 (Session II; 8:00 am - 4:30 pm)
July 10 - 11 (Session III; 8:00 am - 3:00 pm and 8:00 am - 5:00 pm, respectively)
Provincetown, MA
Adoption Resource Center & Center For Family Connections
Session I: Advanced Clinical Intensives ; $400
Session II: The Community of Adoption; $200 for newcomers/$100 for repeat attendees
Session III: 2nd Annual International Adoption Video/Film Festival; $200 for both days/$150 for single day
Fee for Sessions I, II, and III = $725
Payment is non-refundable.
(Proceeds from the Video/Film Festival go to the Expressive Therapy Programs of CFFC)
The ARC Summer Intensives are based on Dr. Pavao's Normative Crisis framework, her years of clinical experience, and her consulting and training expertise. The workshops utilize family systems theory, which is the basis of Dr. Pavao's work. Systemic thinking is woven throughout the design of each workshop.
Register as soon as possible, there is limited space. Social Work and LMFT CEUs are available for an additional $35 per session. Limited scholarships are available (scholarships do not apply to the Video/Film Festival or CEUs). Check our website, http://www.Kinnect.org, for updates. Accommodation information and directions are available upon registration.

WORKSHOP FOR PROSPECTIVE ADOPTIVE PARENTS CONSIDERING CHINA ADOPTION
August 2 (1:00 - 3:00 pm)
Ypsilanti District Library, 5577 Whittaker Rd, Ypsilanti, MI
Great Wall China Adoption
Free workshop for prospective adoptive parents and others seeking more information about adopting from China. Couples from ages 30 to 55 are eligible to adopt. A Great Wall China Adoption representative who has just completed her adoption will be presenting. For further information or to reserve a place at the workshop, please contact Kim Bakos at (269) 429-6292 or by e-mail at kimberbakos@yahoo.com.

For local listings, regional seminars, and many other adoption events, visit AdoptionCalendar.com.

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